How to Enjoy Valentine’s Day When You’re Single

Love takes many shapes—romantic love, friendship, and especially self-love.  It’s something we’re naturally drawn to, because loving is the most beautiful experience we get to have. Sometimes it doesn’t come with other people, it comes within you.

Take yourself on solo dates. Spread out a picnic mat, enjoy a meal you lovingly prepared, and truly seize in the moment. There’s something incredibly empowering about spending time with yourself. I’m so inloveee with self-dates, I'm sure you’ll also find yourself falling in love with self-dates just as much as I did.

As you walk around, you’ll notice restaurants glowing with red décor and flower shops overflowing with flowers. Don’t just admire them, treat yourself. Buy the flowers. Choose the things that make you smile.You deserve that love, babe.

Here’s the beautiful truth, Valentine’s Day can be just as meaningful — and just as joyful—when you’re single. It’s the perfect opportunity to celebrate who you are, what you love, and the meaningful relationships already filling your life.

Here’s how to enjoy Valentine’s Day while single without feeling left out.

Focus on Self-Love

Single or not, you deserve to feel loved and appreciated.

• Treat yourself to a favorite meal or dessert
  
  

• Buy yourself a small gift or flowers that makes you happy
  
  

• Spend time relaxing with a bath, face mask, or cozy night in
  
  

• Journal about your achievements and personal growth
  
  

Celebrate Friendships

Friendship is one of the most rewarding forms of love.

• Host a “Galentine’s” or friend-themed virtual hangout
  
  

• Send thoughtful messages or small gifts to friends
  
  

• Plan a group movie night, board game evening, or activity together
  
  

• Share laughs and create memories that make you feel connected
  
  

Treat Yourself to a Fun Experience

Make the day about enjoyment rather than expectations.

• Take yourself on a solo adventure or day trip
  
  

• Try a class or hobby you’ve always wanted to explore
  
  

• Attend events, workshops, or meetups that interest you
  
  

• Make a “bucket list” date with yourself for the day
  
  

Indulge in Your Passions

Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to focus on what lights you up.

• Read a book you’ve been meaning to start
  
  

• Watch a favorite movie or binge a series guilt-free
  
  

• Dive into creative projects, art, or music
  
  

• Spend uninterrupted time on hobbies that make you happy
  
  

Reflect and Set Intentions

Use the day to reconnect with yourself and your goals.

• Reflect on what you’ve accomplished this year
  
  

• Journal about your dreams, intentions, and self-growth
  
  

• Plan personal goals for the upcoming months
  
  

• Embrace gratitude for the love already in your life
  
  

Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples. It’s about love in all its forms—self-love, friendships, and gratitude for the relationships that matter most. Trust me, it’s possible to make the day meaningful, memorable, and entirely your own.